Smile! I know.. those laugh lines.. they are multiplying right?
Let's talk about skin today. Latte?
It's my treat!
This is just great Leslie!! I really want to find a good dermatologist but have had troubles finding one that I feel takes the time to listen to me. Any tips on how to find the right dermatologist? My last experience left me really disappointed.
Jayme @ Her Late Night Cravings
Jayme @ Her Late Night Cravings
I totally understand how you feel here. Some doctors are intimidating and have a poor bedside manor.
Interviewing is the best way to determine if a Medical Doctor is a good fit for you.
Most providers run late and always seem rushed. Don't let that make you nervous! Stay calm, and ask your questions. A written list can be helpful and then have a pen and paper to write down what you need to.
Last, remember that doctors don't always have the answers and they DO make mistakes. If you are disappointed or have a bad experience, you need to speak with the office manager. A reputable office will help with concerns. Be brave:)
11/6/12
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Hello Leslie!
I was intrigued by your last blog post. I didn't know that you are a skin care expert. I have a question for you:
What product can I use to lighten my dark spots on my cheeks?
I do not want to go through a Fraxel procedure or the like until I know I have exhausted other options.
Also, what is a good basic cleanser to use for combination. T-zone skin?
Thank you!
Hope you are doing well.
Adrienne (age 45)
If you have dark spots (or hyperpigmented areas) on your checks, sometimes they can be lightened with over the counter lightening serums/creams. A prescription cream from your provider, such as Hydroquinone, will work the best. If you tolerate it, a glycolic wash and lotion would be good. Glycolic will help with exfoliation (getting rid of damage) and also lighten and brighten the skin. Lasers, when used by or under the direction of a physician, can get rid of {some} brown spots or discoloration.
It IS possible to worsen your problem if you use the wrong products or do a procedure that isn't right for your condition. This is why you should always have a diagnosis made by a medical doctor prior to beginning a treatment plan.
Fraxel is great and
helps many people. It treats deep into the tissue of the skin, leaving the outside layer in tack. It is however,a bit pricey and usually takes a few treatments. I also do a lot of chemical peels (sounds mean, I know..) but the RIGHT peel can provide wonderful results for certain individuals.
Melasma is tricky and usually triggered by hormones. It often shows up during a woman's child bearing years or with birth control pills and gets worse with sun exposure.
It IS possible to worsen your problem if you use the wrong products or do a procedure that isn't right for your condition. This is why you should always have a diagnosis made by a medical doctor prior to beginning a treatment plan.
Fraxel is great and
helps many people. It treats deep into the tissue of the skin, leaving the outside layer in tack. It is however,a bit pricey and usually takes a few treatments. I also do a lot of chemical peels (sounds mean, I know..) but the RIGHT peel can provide wonderful results for certain individuals.
Melasma is tricky and usually triggered by hormones. It often shows up during a woman's child bearing years or with birth control pills and gets worse with sun exposure.
Anonymous: Perimenopausal female, age 50. She had acne as a teen and seems to have it again, and it's been resistant to treatment.
Not only do we have to worry about all the other changes going on with our skin during menopause.. some of us are still dealing with acne. Those darn hormones!
If the standard approach of topicals and oral medication to stop an acne flare doesn't help, some providers will try Spironolactone (a testosterone lowering medication) to help mature women that struggle with acne. Sometimes we "break out" during perimenopausal because our hormones are all over the map. Cellular turnover slows, making our pores get clogged easier .. and our skin often lacks luster.
As our estrogen goes down, some of the other hormones will dominate. All oral medications require on going medical supervision and blood work. Our goal is to get people OFF off prescription medication once they pass through the flare. Mature women will do better if they remain calm and try to stay in balance in all areas of life.. food, exercise, sleep .. find happiness and keep the romance going! It's all good for the skin!
As our estrogen goes down, some of the other hormones will dominate. All oral medications require on going medical supervision and blood work. Our goal is to get people OFF off prescription medication once they pass through the flare. Mature women will do better if they remain calm and try to stay in balance in all areas of life.. food, exercise, sleep .. find happiness and keep the romance going! It's all good for the skin!
Don't go overboard eliminating all the fun things in life:)
This is awesome because I have been seeing such bad skin changes that may have to do with stress and using products that were to harsh for my face. Actually, I really need to take my boys to the dermatologists for breakouts. Would you recommend that they get facials? 17 and 14
You are right, stress is not good for the skin. Over-treating the skin (using "harsh" products) is common. It's almost as if we are saying .. okay skin, take this!! .. and in giving it "that" we cause more issues.If there is a skin problem, use less not more. Go easy and leave your skin alone. Give it a break and proceed cautiously as you try new things.
Depending on what kind of acne the boys have, facials may or may not help. A facial will exfoliate and cleanse the skin. It's not meant to be an acne treatment. That said, an Aesthetician should be able to discuss basic skin care ~ and that is helpful.
Skin is dry this time of year. Here is a salad I make when my skin is feeling over-taxed (post holidays!).
The watercress is so pretty and has lots of nutritive value.
Endive and watercress Salad
2 or 3 Endive
1/2 bunch of Watercress
1 or 2 avocados
small cucumber
Dressing
2 TB Tarragon Vinegar
4 TB olive oil
Diced shallot optional
salt,pepper to taste
belclairehouse.blogspot.com
It's fun being a woman and you are all gorgeous!
xxleslie
If you'd like to talk about your skin, nutrition, or exercise.. email me at trouverlesoleil@gmail.com
Make sure you keep your question brief and let me know your age or the decade you are in.
This blog series is not meant to treat or diagnose a medical problem. If something persists, changes, or doesn't feel right, see your Medical Doctor.
The watercress is so pretty and has lots of nutritive value.
Endive and watercress Salad
2 or 3 Endive
1/2 bunch of Watercress
1 or 2 avocados
small cucumber
Dressing
2 TB Tarragon Vinegar
4 TB olive oil
Diced shallot optional
salt,pepper to taste
belclairehouse.blogspot.com
It's fun being a woman and you are all gorgeous!
xxleslie
If you'd like to talk about your skin, nutrition, or exercise.. email me at trouverlesoleil@gmail.com
Make sure you keep your question brief and let me know your age or the decade you are in.
This blog series is not meant to treat or diagnose a medical problem. If something persists, changes, or doesn't feel right, see your Medical Doctor.











Love your tips, they're down-to earth and I like the fact that you've included the salad. It's important to start from the inside - something I should remember more often myself ;-) Great post xo
ReplyDeleteGreat post Leslie, really interesting.
ReplyDeleteGreat tips... definitely going to start eating more skin-boosting foods!
ReplyDeleteYay Leslie, Good karma to you for being so generous with your knowledge--it is much appreciated! And I will be making that salad pronto. :)
ReplyDeleteThis is such a fabulous series Leslie!! Love it....such great ideas, tips and expertise. You will be hearing from me soon with a few questions:)
ReplyDeletegreat post love! - any ideas for a 32 year old trying to fight of MAJOR weight gain due to medication? (major as in 45lbs!) - i'm going Paleo, exercising daily, and stopping all medication - so hopefully it'll help
ReplyDeleteGood Morning, lovely Leslie!
ReplyDeleteThank you for all of the very
good tips. I have been hearing
a lot lately about avoiding
parabens. Your thoughts?
They seem to be in just about
all skin creams and lotions,
although I am starting to see
products labelled "paraben free."
Thanks for your expert advice!
xo Suzanne
These were great, as I tend to get dark spots on my skin...I find it annoying really. Should go and see someone about it. I hope you are having a great week so far doll xox
ReplyDeleteI love this series. It's very enlightening and informative. I must try that salad as watercress is a favorite. Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge with us Leslie!
ReplyDeleteRowena @ rolala loves
Great information! Thanks so much for sharing. Your salad looks delicious! I love avocados and read that they are very good for your skin, so I love to make recipes that include avocados! Especially guacamole :)
ReplyDeleteHi, Leslie ~ Glad to see this Q&A back. Thank you for sharing your expertise. I have so-so skin....and do not see a dermatologist....have never, either. When I don't get enough sleep, I seem to break out. Is there a connection between lack of sleep and breaking out? And I'm 41 :)
ReplyDeletexoxo
Loi
hi leslie.
ReplyDeletesuch a wealth of great help here! i am on a gluten free diet this week to see if an allergy is causing some of my health issues. i am wondering if one of the benefits of eliminating gluten is healthier skin?
smiles to you.
michele
p.s.
you know eliminating traditional pastry and baked goods could possibly kill me. :)
Dear Leslie!
ReplyDeleteI am no sure how this happened, but I missed your last post! I LOVE YOUR BLOG!
OK, I have experienced most of the things on this panel discussion! The latest one (over the last year) was acne! I HAVE ALWAYS had the best skin, but I started having inflamed marks around my eyes that I thought were styes, but end up being rosecea. A topical cream did the trick. And the Melasma I had has disappeared!!! Those crazy hormones!
Good nutrition and exercise however, always seem to be good back-ups for any intervention plan as well. This was great and FUN! Anita
Great information! Thank you!
ReplyDeletegonna try out this salad
ReplyDeletemy skin is notoriously dry in any season
brett
So enjoyed your post! Your salad looks YUMMY, gonna try it...thanks!
ReplyDeleteBTW...love the hose on the gal in the last photo...so slimming!!!
Blessings,
Cindy
I've always thought you should have a totally separate blog for this..it is so wonderful and people really like to talk to you and you are so easy to talk to! Unlike a lot of our doctors! ( my dad is one and I can't talk to HIM either!) I can…but i never like his answers! Anyway, this is just fabulous! I'm like Tina…you will be hearing from me a lot! I'm too scared to ask my dermatologist a lot because of all of the sun damage I've done to myself! Why does the sun have to be bad? It's so wonderful! I am getting better though! It's about time at 48! Also….we just had this salad tonight and have it often! I didn't realize it was good for your skin! So glad to hear it as I have VERY dry skin! Take care, Leslie! Thanks for taking the time to do this blog post! LOVE IT!!
ReplyDeleteHi Leslie,
ReplyDeleteA beautiful bouquet of info on so many things, some troublesome, others just not enough stats on, etc! Thanks for clarifying some of these and with such flair!
Poppy xo
Lots of great information in this post, thanks Leslie!
ReplyDeleteKathysue
Leslie! I stumbled upon your blog and learned you know a lot about taking care of your skin! What a treat! I have had multiple jaw surgeries this year that have caused some severe bruising to my face. I can cover it up with makeup, but I'm wondering if you have learned of any products or solutions that might help?
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www.SatinAndSalt.com
Hello Leslie, so many great tips and advice! I loved it all!I cannot wait to try the salad!
ReplyDeleteHave a wonderful week!
Amazing skin care post! Thanks for sharing such useful tips ;)
ReplyDeleteSo many useful tips and I'm definitely going to make the salad - the dressing sounds delicious. One of our Christmas gifts was a hamper including some unusual flavoured vinegars and I'm looking forward to trying them.
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This is a great post Leslie! I just turned 32 and within the last year I started to notice some small almost freckle sized dark spots....I do use the bright plus line from clarins but i hope the issue doesn't get worse.
ReplyDeleteHi Leslie,
ReplyDeleteThis is so informative and helpful, like having our own concierge specialist in the house! The salad looks delicious too. Thank you.
Karen
OMG,this is so amazing,I love the pictures and the food!
ReplyDeleteYour blog is great hun,If you like take a look on my blog,
Wish you a nice week! <3
xoxo
VIEWRAMA
my
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such a beautiful blog today...loved reading it all!
ReplyDeleteThe salad sounds so healthy! Thanks for the recipe dear!
ReplyDeleteI'd like to invite you over to my blog too dear!
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Leslie... great post! It's no wonder you look so good! I didn't know you were a skin care expert. Love the questions and the answers; clear and concise. Thanks for the info.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Leslie! This post was so helpful and full of awesome information! Love these Q&A's!!
ReplyDeleteJayme @ Her Late Night Cravings
This is very informative. I am going to pass your tips for dark spots on to my mom who has had a problem with them in the last few years. Excellent idea.
ReplyDeleteFabulous advice Leslie...I feel very fortunate to know you...clever lady.
ReplyDeleteHave a good week.
Catherine
xx
Yum, I want that salad! I crave all that fresh green stuff, especially after all the sweets. Thanks so much for the good skin care tips too, the choices out there are so overwhelming...
ReplyDeleteCindy
Another great post! I´d love to hang out here and have a latte with you! xo Caroline
ReplyDeleteLeslie,
ReplyDeleteLoved reading all your answers and I appreciate all your knowledge of skincare..
Also liked your previous post on being positive. It looks so gorgeous up in Washington!
xo
Kim
Leslie,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for answering my question. So much to consider! Great information, too.
I just so happen to be getting a facial tomorrow and will ask about going on Glycolic acid again - it's been a very long time since I have used that.
Also, I will ask about Fraxel. I think it's getting to the point that I may need to go that route.
Thank you again for your expert advice!
xo, Adrienne
Hi Leslie,
ReplyDeleteI love all the info on skin care and treatments your share. Your salad looks so delicious I want to run to the store NOW to get all the ingredients. I'm out of avocados which is never a good thing in my house.
As for skin care, I've had a history...I had one of the early 'dermabrasions' (back in the 80's). There were 16 injections to numb my face-had to be brave-no need to discuss details. I am so pleased they can make such improvements, with lasers and progressive treatments, these days. I had my first laser treatment not long ago and was very pleased with the results. Your series on skin care is very popular. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and expertise my friend!
xx Heather
Hello Leslie, such a great post for all of us to treat our skin in these winter days. Very informative. I enjoy getting facials. I have contemplated having laser or some other treatment.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great post! I leaned so much....thank you for sharing your knowledge :o)
ReplyDeleteHave a great weekend!
~Des
Great tips. I have finally found a night cream that I love. It isn't for the face, exactly...but it works for me.
ReplyDeleteLeslie your tips are really important. Taking notes at the doctors is always a great thing to do (write down questions the night before.)
ReplyDeleteYou may have a suggestion for me. I have had 6 hospital stays and an preparing for a fourth major surgery in 16 months. My skin is so dry and I try to keep it clean, use a moisturizing mask on my face at least once a week. A good night and day cream. I use a mixture of Neutrogena oil and cream on my body.
Any thoughts?
xoxo
Karena
Art by Karena
This post is fabulous. You really discuss some pertinent issues in such a glamorous way. I get melasma when I'm in the sun for a minute. For me that's so difficult because the sun makes me happy. I just got it after 40 and sunscreen doesn't help. I use tri-luma to remove it but the minute I have sun exposure it comes back. Any advice?
ReplyDeletexo
Sharon
Hi Sharon,
DeleteTri-luma will help remove or exfoliate some of the "dead" skin on the surface of the skin, thus helping to improve the look or lighten the existing hyperpigmentation. Some people benefit as much or more with hydroquinone although it may be a little irritating for certain skin types. You have an olive skin tone (lucky girl... I am so pale!!) and that means you may be more prone to ALL types of pigment issues. A good sunscreen that's 30 SPF or greater applied every day and staying out of direct sun is the best thing to do. With hyperpigmentatin that's been diagnosed by a doctor as melasma, it's a matter of managing rather than totally eliminating it. You are right, it comes right back. Sometimes people benefit from some of the over the counter serums like Phoretin CF from Skinceuticals. xxL
Thanks for answering my question Leslie! The advice was great and I'm going to try to relax more and take it easy with all of the products I put on my face. I do see a difference when I just apply a little of something as to lathering on too much. I've learned that my skin is super sensitive. Thank you, thank you! XO
ReplyDeleteYou are the best!!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you